The Grey Lady

70-72 The Pantiles, Tunbridge Wells

The Grey Lady music lounge is situated in Tunbridge Wells on the Pantiles. With a selection of pasta, rice, pizza, salad, fish and meat dishes, and music from around the world – from blues and jazz to soul and Latin – there really is something for everyone.


  • Took friends to the grey lady for a birthday celebration. We sat upstairs in a really lovely restaurant which was a great size. (Not really large) the service was great and the food was excellent. Then they have live music and you have your table for the whole evening. I really recommend this venue it was a fantastic evening
    Sharon S
  • I hired the upstairs room for a birthday party. Lydia and her team looked after us very well. The food was great, plenty of it and very tasty. The guys behind the bar were very efficient and friendly so I would definitely recommend this venue.
  • Carlos, Lydia and the Grey Lady staff offered great customer service planning for Breast Cancer Kent charity event 11/10/2019. Fantastic venue, and Over the Edge were awesome, as usual. Great atmosphere, company and dancing. Thank you
  • We had our engagment party in The Grey Lady music lounge which is above the restaurant. We vistited lots of venues in Tunbridge Wells and are so pleased we chose this one! We ordered Italian buffet food for 60 people which was fantastic. The food was served a few hours into the party and guests have all said how good it was. The staff made the evening completely stress free and Lydia invited us to come to the venue before to set up decorations so it looked exactly how we wanted it to.
    Natalie T
  • The Grey Lady is a wonderful place to have a private party. Lydia and her team were extremely attentive and flexible throughout the whole process. They accommodated all our music requests including bringing our own band, as well as turn tables and the sound system there is excellent. Everyone loved the food- especially the calamari and paella. The staff were all very friendly. Thank you very much!
    Lisa Mich
  • I hired the grey lady for my birthday in January and it was brilliant- Carlos and Lydia were both incredibly helpful, as were all the other members of staff. I would highly recommend the venue and be looking to hire it again for next year!
    Nina Shrieves